Welcome to the first of KinkQuest’s blog posts. As you may have noticed, it has been pretty quiet around here lately. Last month the day-job got quiet – really quiet – that’s why we had the time and energy to put so many hours into launching this site. It was great for kink, and for this world that we’re starting to build, but not so great for the whole ‘paying the bills’ deal. … [Read more...] about Kinktober 1 – Dude, Hero to Cocks Everywhere
Review: Njoy Pure Wand
It took me a long time to work up the nerve to buy Njoy's Pure Wand. A long time ago, I had lots of silicone and cyberskin dildos, most of them not recognizable brand names. I didn't know better, and never examined what they were made of or whether it was body safe. They sold it in the sex toy store, it had to be safe, right? At some point, in preparation for a weekend … [Read more...] about Review: Njoy Pure Wand
Review: Je Joue Ami
Since long before we knew to identify as Daddy and submissive, toys like the Ami have figured heavily into our rotation. Daddy has always liked to leave me with reminders while he's away at work. Way back when, we had a knock-off version of the butterfly vibrator, it was called The Ladybug. We found out, pretty quickly, that my clit didn't like the sustained vibration of … [Read more...] about Review: Je Joue Ami
Review: The Butters Lube
I have never considered myself a fan of lube. In our earliest days, we used baby oil, if we used anything, and I found nothing about it to be pleasant, not even the lubricating properties, but I figured if it was gentle enough for babies, then I could count on it not to irritate my most delicate skin. During those days, we bought a long succession of poorly designed, … [Read more...] about Review: The Butters Lube
Finding Daddy
It is an unavoidable truth of the story of us that I need more than he does, and it has never been a comfortable position. I can remember when I first knew that I wanted us to live in our D/s dynamic 24/7. For months, I struggled to find the words. We lived in another country, not so far from home, but far enough that I was lost. Nothing fit quite right, I felt even more … [Read more...] about Finding Daddy